The idea of parental perfection is impractical. And who defines what perfect looks like anyway? A society that throws around parental expectations almost willy-nilly? People who suggest that imperfection is synonymous with inadequacy?

Here at Live Naturally, we prefer to crank up our victory-detection radar. Because there are plenty of imperfect parenting situations that present opportunities for a win.

We’re glad that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And we believe that you, dear parent, are the only beholder who counts.

For some, spaghetti sauce in the hair is a beautiful thing because, along the way, a few noodles and one broccoli floret were eaten. That counts as a win.

For others, a permanent marker-colored face is a Picasso. Creativity is always a win.

And the next time your kiddo walks into the house and asks for hand sanitizer—even though their entire body is caked in mud—consider it a thing of beauty. Because that’s a double win: Your little one spent time outside, and they improved their health (exposure to germs at a young age can help prime the immune system).

This may conjure memories of a recent diaper explosion. And the second bath you gave that same day. But, if you use shampoo and body wash made with thoughtfully chosen ingredients, like Babyganics, we feel like that’s a big win.

Did your toddler walk out of the bathroom covered in sunscreen from head to toe? Even if they slip away when you try to grab them, we consider that a win because it’s one less thing for you to do. Bonus win: Before heading to the park, toddler antics are a good reminder to slather the baby with sunscreen.

So, let’s get down to it.

Here’s our take on the most important aspects of imperfect parenting:

•  Someone (preferably child and parent) laughed today.
•  Someone learned something new (whether that was that noses are pickable or that centipedes have a gazillion legs—doesn’t matter).
•  Someone who needed to (whether child or parent) apologized.
•  Someone knows they are loved.

And here are some of our favorite practical details of imperfect parenting:

•  Everyone was strapped securely (car seat or safety belt) in the car.
•  Everyone who went to the grocery store made it back from the grocery store.
•  Everyone at some point in the day had a meal.
•  Everyone got a little exercise.

So, parents, keep doing whatever you’re doing because it’s perfect. And in our books that makes you a winner. No trophies here. But you do get a Participation Award! And that’s a big deal if you’re a parent.

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